Not too long ago I received an email from a guy I had briefly communicated with on Frumster. He told me he had been thinking of me and wanted to just catch up. We just hadn’t gelled in our initial emails, so I had let him down gently.
I thought it was nice of him to send me such a polite email, but he seemed still interested. So I emailed him back that I had recently got married and was moving. I ended off by wishing him the best for the future.
He replied that he wished us Mazel Tov, perhaps he could come over and stay at our house for a Shabbat some day soon. I should let him know when I am settled.
What? Are we even friends? Am I crazy in thinking this was just plain weird? I emailed back some kind of reply that was vague….but I was disturbed….. Would you have him over? I totally wouldn’t.
12 responses so far ↓
CB // May 14, 2009 at 1:11 pm |
absolutely not and it’s wrong of him to even ask!
batya // May 14, 2009 at 2:57 pm |
totally inappropriate. let him keep looking for UNmarried females & leave you alone. you would NOT want to be hosting him & he should not have even had the audacity to ask you!!!
Risa // May 14, 2009 at 3:38 pm |
I think everyone would agree, major chutzpa. I’d block his address.
La Lomantos // May 14, 2009 at 4:30 pm |
He probably wants to get up in the middle of the night, decapacitate your husband and kidnap you : ). ..so uh, you were correct!
ladylockandload // May 14, 2009 at 4:50 pm |
Uh, I don’t think anybody could attack KoD without a hitch…he will beat him to a pulp. Just tell him that your hubby who has a black belt in karate would not take too kindly to him and might not be a good idea….he will get the hint!
hadassahsabo // May 14, 2009 at 7:27 pm |
just so that we are clear – the KoD is a very non-violent man – but he is built totally from muscle – and i wouldn’t recommend for ANYONE to mess with him.
ladylockandload // May 14, 2009 at 7:54 pm |
Yeah, but KoD is gonna fight to the finish for his woman…
hadassahsabo // May 14, 2009 at 8:10 pm |
you know, i CAN defend myself – i have a solid gold broomstick thats fully loaded. I dont NEED my man to defend me, altho i like the idea of it.
ladylockandload // May 14, 2009 at 8:46 pm |
You have a gold one, I am so jealous, I guess you will be the new head of the barnacle witch club when you come here. I will have to relinquish my title as “nasty woman”…
hadassahsabo // May 14, 2009 at 8:48 pm |
oh come come my lady, i am sure there’s a thing or two you can teach me, you’ve raised your kids past high school age without grievous bodily harm – I am sure you corner the market on nasty lol
ladylockandload // May 14, 2009 at 8:56 pm |
Haha, I’m sure my hubby agrees with you! Yeah, youngest graduates high school June 21, Thank the dear Lord, I survived! Will have to bench gomel..
shoshi // May 15, 2009 at 3:08 am |
If you wouldn’t, so don’t, where is the problem?