Frumster Files #78547

Not too long ago I received an email from a guy I had briefly communicated with on Frumster. He told me he had been thinking of me and wanted to just catch up. We just hadn’t gelled in our initial emails, so I had let him down gently.


I thought it was nice of him to send me such a polite email, but he seemed still interested. So I emailed him back that I had recently got married and was moving. I ended off by wishing him the best for the future.


He replied that he wished us Mazel Tov, perhaps he could come over and stay at our house for a Shabbat some day soon. I should let him know when I am settled.


What? Are we even friends? Am I crazy in thinking this was just plain weird? I emailed back some kind of reply that was vague….but I was disturbed….. Would you have him over? I totally wouldn’t.

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12 responses to “Frumster Files #78547

  1. absolutely not and it’s wrong of him to even ask!

  2. totally inappropriate. let him keep looking for UNmarried females & leave you alone. you would NOT want to be hosting him & he should not have even had the audacity to ask you!!!

  3. I think everyone would agree, major chutzpa. I’d block his address.

  4. He probably wants to get up in the middle of the night, decapacitate your husband and kidnap you : ). uh, you were correct!

  5. ladylockandload

    Uh, I don’t think anybody could attack KoD without a hitch…he will beat him to a pulp. Just tell him that your hubby who has a black belt in karate would not take too kindly to him and might not be a good idea….he will get the hint!

  6. just so that we are clear – the KoD is a very non-violent man – but he is built totally from muscle – and i wouldn’t recommend for ANYONE to mess with him.

  7. ladylockandload

    Yeah, but KoD is gonna fight to the finish for his woman…

  8. you know, i CAN defend myself – i have a solid gold broomstick thats fully loaded. I dont NEED my man to defend me, altho i like the idea of it.

  9. ladylockandload

    You have a gold one, I am so jealous, I guess you will be the new head of the barnacle witch club when you come here. I will have to relinquish my title as “nasty woman”…

  10. oh come come my lady, i am sure there’s a thing or two you can teach me, you’ve raised your kids past high school age without grievous bodily harm – I am sure you corner the market on nasty lol

  11. ladylockandload

    Haha, I’m sure my hubby agrees with you! Yeah, youngest graduates high school June 21, Thank the dear Lord, I survived! Will have to bench gomel..

  12. If you wouldn’t, so don’t, where is the problem?

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